BELLS CORNERS UNITED CHURCH
5th SUNDAY OF CREATION TIME IN THE SEASON OF PENTECOST
THANKSGIVING SUNDAY SERVICE
October 11, 2020
The video recording of this service can be found here.
You can also dial-in by phone to listen to the audio recording at 613-820-8104
Gathering Music: Thanks A Lot – Raffi CGS/Bell Canto
Welcome & Announcements
Happy Thanksgiving! On behalf of Bells Corners United Church, let me say that we are thankful that you have joined us for this service of worship.
We have begun to open the sanctuary for a small number of people as a trial to see how we can offer a gathering of a few while still following the health protocols to keep everyone safe. If you would like to attend, please go the website or call the church office to register by the Wednesday preceding the service. You will be asked to answer a health questionnaire and given the procedures that have been put in place. At the next Board Meeting, we will look at both the interest of people to attend and the feasibility of following the necessary procedures to decide how we will continue going forward.
If you are unable to attend in person, there are several ways you can still participate in worship, through the YouTube video, the audio version or the text of the service, through the links provided on our webpage. You can also call 613-820-8104 to listen to the service on your telephone.
In whatever way you are joining us, from whatever place or time, know that we are glad that you are here and we hope that today’s service offers what you need as you head into the next week.
I have a few announcements to highlight this week:
- Every Wednesday evening at 8pm, we invite you to join your prayers with others from the comfort of your own home. Wherever you are, say a prayer for the world, for your community, the congregation, your family, and yourself. This week, we offer particular prayers for Lynne Fox as she mourns the death of her brother, for Ross Snider and Helen Jol as they recover in hospital and at home from falls, and for Rev. Kim as she takes the time she needs to get well.
- Don’t forget that you can order Volume 2 of the Book of Memories as well as grocery gift cards by calling the church office to arrange payment and pick-up.
- The church office is now open from 9 to 4 Monday to Friday. The doors will be locked but Ruth and Ellen are happy to arrange to meet you and let you in if you call first to let them know you are coming. Just ring the doorbell upon arrival and they will meet you there.
- Our Lectionary study Group has resumed meeting through zoom every Tuesday morning at 10:30. If you would like to take part in a lively discussion about the next Sunday’s scripture reading, we’d love to have you join us! Contact Lorrie or the office to get the link.
- Plans are well underway for our Outdoor Market next Saturday and we are still expecting it to go ahead. We are, however, closely monitoring the health regulations so I advise you to watch the website for any updates this week.
- For those who are able to join us by Zoom, there will be a “Virtual Fellowship Time” every Sunday at 11:30 am. The link will be sent to you by email. If you have not yet received it, please call the office for more information during regular church office hours.
For more announcements, please check the church website.
Let us now gather our hearts and minds for worship…
Lighting of the Christ Candle Acolytes: Sue Morrison and Arcadie Gagne
May this spark of Divine Energy be a beacon of hope to all.
We welcome the Christ to brighten and ground our worship.[1]
Call to Gather
The flaming leaves of autumn are like the fire of God’s spirit.
The bounty of the fields is like the fullness of God’s love.
We are called to share the blessings of the land with the world.
Let us worship God.[2]
Prayer of Approach
Creator God,
We come to celebrate the beauty and bounty of your good earth:
Glorious blue skies and blazing fall colours; fields ripe for harvest; gardens overflowing with goodness.
Grant us thankful hearts, we pray.
May our prayers and our lives overflow with gratitude.
We offer this worship to your glory, now and always. Amen.[3]
Hymn: “Come You Thankful People Come” Voices United #516
1. Come, you thankful people, come, raise the song of harvest-home!
All is safely gathered in, safe before the storms begin;
God, our maker, does provide for our needs to be supplied;
Come to God’s own temple come, raise the song of harvest home!
2. All the world is God’s own field, harvests for God’s praise to yield;
Wheat and weeds together sown, here for joy or sorrow grown;
First the blade and then the ear, then the full corn shall appear;
Harvest giver, grant that we wholesome grain and pure may be.
3. For our God, one day, shall come, and shall take this harvest-home;
From the field shall in that day all offenses purge away;
Giving angels charge at last in the fire the weeds to cast;
But the fruitful ears to store in the garner evermore.
4. Even so, God, quickly come to your final harvest-home!
Gather all your people in, free from sorrow, free from sin;
There, forever purified, in your presence to abide:
Come, with all your angels come, raise the glorious harvest home.
Words 1844 Henry Alford, Music 1858 George Elvey
Song #84090 Reprinted with permission under ONE LICENSE #A-733214. All rights reserved
Storytime for the Young at Heart Sue Morrison
This weekend is our Canadian Thanksgiving holiday, and so I’ve been thinking a lot about Thanksgiving and getting ready for the Thanksgiving celebration we will have this year at my house. I remember the Thanksgiving celebrations that we had in my childhood. At my house we always had a turkey and stuffing, cranberry sauce, fruit salad and both sweet potatoes and mashed white potatoes. Lots of other things we didn’t always get at ordinary meals. And of course, pie-- usually at least two kinds of pie. It was a very special meal, and my mother put a lot of love, effort and time into preparing it. But it wasn’t just the food that made it so special, it was also a big family feast and we had grandparents, aunts and uncles and cousins there to share our meal. Many of you probably usually have those kinds of meals on Thanksgiving, too, maybe not exactly the same, but still a special meal and maybe some relatives or friends who come to visit at your house, or you go to visit someone else for a big Thanksgiving dinner. And it makes great memories for most of us.
This year is a bit different for many of us because of the pandemic, and we can’t get together in big groups for that kind of family dinner. But I am getting ready for a little Thanksgiving dinner for just the four of us who live closest together in our family. I’m going to set the table with the best china dishes and make sure that each person has their favourite Thanksgiving foods. My granddaughter Arcadie really likes pumpkin pie, so I have a pumpkin pie that she will enjoy. When we all get together for a nice Thanksgiving meal, I feel like it is the way God wants it to be for us--love around the family table, all enjoying and appreciating each other and the good things God’s Earth provides.
In our Bible reading today we are going to hear a parable that Jesus told about a king who invited everyone to a big feast, but some of the invited guests didn’t come when it was time, and they didn’t even have a good reason not to be there. What if at my house, instead of everyone arriving when they said they would to enjoy our Thanksgiving feast, something like this happened: It’s the time and day we agreed to have our meal, I’m ready to start, the turkey is done cooking, the gravy is made, and it’s time to put the food on the table while it is still nice and hot, but nobody has arrived. I’m getting a little concerned, so I start phoning to see what’s keeping everyone. I call Arcadie first, and say, “Are you and your mom coming now? The dinner is all ready and I am waiting for everyone to get here before it gets cold.” And she says, “Huh? Oh, yeah. I guess I sort of forgot, and now I’m in the middle of binge watching old Doctor Who shows. So we can’t come now, ‘cause it’s really interesting and I’m right in the middle of it. You’ll have to excuse us this time. Maybe you could just put some pie in the freezer and we’ll come by and pick it up some other time.”
Now, they have never done this sort of thing to me, really, but what if they did? I think I would feel hurt and not very appreciated. And they would miss out on a really nice meal and family time, just because they didn’t care enough to show up. Would this be the way God wants it to be in our family? Would we be helping to make the Kin-dom of God a reality in our world? God invites us all, but we each have to care enough to show up and show our appreciation for each other and the good things that have been offered to us, or we aren’t helping to make it the way God wants it to be.
Hymn: “Every Day is a Day of Thanksgiving” More Voices #185
Ev’ry day is a day of thanksgiving.
God, you’ve been so good to me.
Ev’ry day you’re blessing me.
Ev’ry day is a day of thanksgiving.
I will glorify you, O my Lord, today!
(Repeat)
You keep blessing me, blessing me, blessing me.
You opened the door that I might see you’re blessing me.
And you keep blessing me, blessing me, blessing me.
I will glorify you, O my Lord, today!
Words & Music © Leonard Burks. All rights reserved
Prayer for Illumination Reader: Ellen Boynton
Eternal God,
In the reading of the scripture, may your Word be heard;
In the meditations of our hearts, may your Word be known;
And in the faithfulness of our lives, may your Word be shown. Amen.[4]
The Reading: Matthew 22:1-14 The Parable of the Wedding Banquet
22 Once more Jesus spoke to them in parables, saying: 2 “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who gave a wedding banquet for his son. 3 He sent his slaves to call those who had been invited to the wedding banquet, but they would not come. 4 Again he sent other slaves, saying, ‘Tell those who have been invited: Look, I have prepared my dinner, my oxen and my fat calves have been slaughtered, and everything is ready; come to the wedding banquet.’ 5 But they made light of it and went away, one to his farm, another to his business, 6 while the rest seized his slaves, mistreated them, and killed them. 7 The king was enraged. He sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city. 8 Then he said to his slaves, ‘The wedding is ready, but those invited were not worthy. 9 Go therefore into the main streets, and invite everyone you find to the wedding banquet.’ 10 Those slaves went out into the streets and gathered all whom they found, both good and bad; so the wedding hall was filled with guests.
11 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing a wedding robe, 12 and he said to him, ‘Friend, how did you get in here without a wedding robe?’ And he was speechless. 13 Then the king said to the attendants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ 14 For many are called, but few are chosen.”
Hear what the Spirit is saying to all of us. Amen.
Sermon: “Come to the Feast!”
In the spring of 2018, Prince Harry married Meaghan Markle. It was an amazing affair, televised all over the world. The congregation included not only royalty from around the world but Hollywood and television royalty as well. Can you imagine receiving an invitation to that wedding? Even if you are not a fan of the royalty or all the pomp and ceremony that goes with it, even if you are not a particular fan of Meghan or Harry, would you turn down the opportunity to mingle with that crowd, to be in St. George’s Chapel at Windsor Castle, to share in the excitement of the day? Imagine what the wedding reception would have been like… the food, the drinks, even the place settings! I bet the souvenir at your place setting wouldn’t be a little piece of dry fruitcake! Imagine the stories you’d have to tell your friends – and your grandchildren! The whole world would be watching! So, would you toss aside the “Save the Date” card? Would you be “too busy” on that particular day to bother showing up?
The parable that we read today, the third in a row that Jesus told those Chief Priests and Elders who confronted him in the Temple, tells a story about a royal wedding where that happened. Not just one person snubbed the invitation from the king to his son’s wedding, but everyone originally invited! They didn’t even have the courtesy to send their RSVP with their regrets. They waited until the feast was ready and the ceremony about to begin to decline the invitation.
What kind of message were they sending to the king? They considered themselves and their business to be much more important than a momentous occasion in the life of their monarch, that’s clear. And to mistreat the messengers with violence and murder, certainly sends a strong message about their feelings for this king. To say he wasn’t understanding would be an understatement. He responds with the same anger and violence. What a mess!
But the feast must go on! The king is not about to give up his dream of the perfect wedding. Everything has been carefully planned and prepared, so he sends an invitation to those who would least expect to be considered worthy enough to celebrate in such high style with the king. This time, everyone was invited, regardless of their status, even regardless of whether they were good or bad.
So far, Jesus’ telling of the story seems to make some sense. If the king represents God, as we have come to expect in the stories of the Bible, then those people first invited would be the Priests and Elders. They have been given the honour to be called to the king’s inner circle. They have been given special status among the people, and responsibility for the upholding of the kingdom. However, they have betrayed that trust by giving more importance to their own interests than to the work God called them to. Not only are they absorbed with their own self-interest, they don’t even want to be part of the celebration that comes when the royal family grows through marriage. How fitting then, that God would open that invitation to others – and not just a few but to everyone. The doors of the kingdom are opened wide and everyone is invited in.
If we were reading this story from the book of Luke, this is where it would end. After the original guests declined his invitation, the kings dispatched his servants to find the marginalized – the poor and the crippled, the blind and the lame – and invite them to the feast. Even that still left more room at the table, so they went out even beyond the city to gather people from and wide. It’s a great story for Thanksgiving, isn’t it? A reminder to share our blessings with others, especially those less fortunate than us, those who are marginalized in some way - even those we have never met… A reminder that everyone is worthy of an invitation to the table, without judgement… a reminder that the table is big enough to accommodate everyone… A reminder that everyone has an invitation to God’s kingdom.
Unfortunately, Matthew doesn’t leave it there. He adds in a new twist. As the feast is in progress, the king notices a man who is not properly dressed for the occasion. It seems surprising to us that the king would react to this in such a violent way, throwing him out and condemning him to a horrible fate. This seems counter to what we’ve just heard. Everyone was invited, especially the marginalized. How could they all be expected to have the right clothes to wear? And, furthermore, if we show up in God’s kingdom without the right clothes, will we be kicked out and sent to hell? How does this align with what Jesus taught us about a loving and forgiving God who offers endless grace? What about the inclusivity that seems to be a cornerstone of his teachings? Could this really be part of the story told by Jesus or is it simply a way for Matthew to further some personal agenda, an attack perhaps on the leaders of the Temple?
Well, my reading this week taught me something new about the customs of Jesus’ time. It seems that purity was important to the ceremony of a wedding. It was expected that everyone attending a wedding would wear white – not just the bride – and that they would present themselves clean. Remember the washing of feet at the beginning of the Passover meal? This wasn’t just a whim of Jesus that night. It was what happened whenever you entered someone’s home. The climate was hot, the roads were dusty, and most everyone moved around by foot. It would be almost impossible to arrive at someone’s home clean and fresh. As well, people of those days were not likely to have more than one outfit, let alone something set aside just for such an occasion. It is quite likely that this man is wearing the very best clothes he owns, probably the only clothes he owns. It was common, apparently, for the wealthy to meet these obstacles head on. Upon arrival at a wedding, the guests would be given an opportunity to wash their hands and feet. They would be provided with wedding garments – a clean white robe to take the place of the clothes they had worn that day to work and travel. So, the man in our story would have been offered this opportunity to freshen up and a change of clothes when he accepted the invitation. He would have been expected to wear the white robe as a sign of acceptance of the invitation to this celebration, and out of respect for the one who invited him. When this man is confronted by the king, we are told he is speechless. He has no excuse for showing up inappropriately dressed.
What was Matthew saying? Was he directing this specifically to those elite of the Temple who took on the role of Priest or Elder or Pharisee, who basked in the prestige and the lifestyle of the chosen few, who wore the robes and the titles but weren’t really committed to the teachings and the responsibilities? These men weren’t picked at random from the streets. They had spent years studying and working their way up their prestigious place. They were well-educated and likely from middle-or upper-class families. But, like the Tenants in last week’s parable, they had been corrupted by the power that came with their positions. They put more importance of their worldly business than their priestly roles.
That would seem to be the obvious point - except for the fact that the man at the wedding was not one of the elite upper-class, inner circle. Those people had already snubbed the king’s invitation. This man was a commoner; someone the servants had rounded up on the street or in the countryside and given this honour of attending a royal wedding. He didn’t have to be born into the right class. He didn’t have to earn this invitation. He just had to accept it. Even if he had never been inside a palace before and had no idea of the protocol, he would have had his hands and feet washed when he arrived and he would have been given a clean white robe to wear. The expectations would have been quite clear.
So, I suppose this man has chosen not to make himself clean or to wear the robe. It seems he’s not there to celebrate the wedding of the king’s son. He’s just there for the fancy food and drink… or maybe he has made this choice as a protest against a king he has no respect for. Either way, the king cannot let him stay. He cannot allow this man to put a blemish on the celebration. He cannot allow him to sabotage this special event. He is sent into the chaos and violence that is happening outside with those who chose not to accept the invitation.
I wasn’t invited to Harry and Meghan’s wedding. I can’t say I know anyone who was. But through the teachings and example of Jesus, we have all been invited to the kingdom – to the love feast in the kingdom, the very home of God. Some of us received the invitation because we were born into the family, but there is room for everyone. God opens the door and invites everyone in. It doesn’t matter where you are from or even what you have done before you passed this way. The invitation is freely given. Your personal invitation is in your hand. How will you respond?
Will you send an RSVP right away and start preparing? Or will you put the invitation aside to deal with later when you’re not so busy?
What will you wear? You weren’t given the invitation based on what you are wearing today – but is it enough to show up without changing from the soiled clothes you’ve worn every day? Do you need something new? Does your appearance need to be extravagant or does it just need to be clean?
What gifts will you bring? Does it need to be something extravagant and expensive? Or should it be something personal and heartfelt?
Are you going looking for a good time, luxurious food, and a chance to hob-nob with royalty? Are you hoping the world will see how special you are to have been invited? Are you going because it will be great for your image or are you going to do your part in making this feast a wonderful experience for everyone on the guest list?
Your invitation has arrived! Before you accept it, think carefully. Are you excited about what this celebration represents? Are you willing to do what it takes to get ready and to meet the expectations of the host? Can you fit it into your schedule?
Your invitation has arrived. Please come to the feast!
Amen.
Prayers of the People and the Lord’s Prayer
God, we come into Your presence
with praise and thanksgiving for Your faithful love.
Your love never fails—not even we turn away from You:
when we ignore Your invitation,
or desert You for gods of our own making.
Even then You do not abandon us,
but reach out—again and again—
inviting us back into relationship once more.
As You welcome us, so You welcome our prayers.
We bring them to You with confidence,
knowing that You will hear and answer.
We pray for the world You created, and the people who share it with us:
- for countries caught up in war or violent conflict,
- for regions of the world struggling with increased cases of COVID-19,
- for those whose homes and lives are threatened by natural disaster;
For these and all the other areas in our world
where there is need and despair,
Lord, hear our prayer.
We pray for our country and for its people:
- for our government leaders, federal and local,
- for our judicial system, police forces and military,
- for our cities, towns, and rural communities,
- for employers and employees, for young and old,
For all who are part of this great country,
Lord, hear our prayer.
We pray for our local community—the people of this city,
- for those who are unemployed,
- for those in prison,
- for those who are hungry,
- for those who are alone and afraid,
For all our neighbours, both known and unknown to us,
Lord, hear our prayer.
We pray for this congregation—our brothers and sisters in Christ,
- for those who are ill. or whose loved ones are ill,
- for those who are anxious about the future,
- for those struggling with their faith,
- for those who minister among us,
For all Your people in this place,
Lord, hear our prayer.
Pour out Your Spirit on us!
Fix our hearts and minds on what is true and honourable and right.
Give us the joy and peace that comes from knowing and doing Your will.
Keep us faithful to the call we have received in Christ Jesus, our Lord,
extending Your loving invitation to the world around us.[5]
These things we ask in Jesus’ name and in the words we say together:
Our Father, who art in heaven,
Hallowed be thy name.
Thy kin-dom come, thy will be done
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.
For thine is the kin-dom, the power and the glory,
Forever and ever,
Amen.
Invitation to Offer
On this day when we give thanks for the many blessings in our lives, we remember that Jesus asks us to share those blessings with others.
I now invite you to offer your gifts of time, talents and resources as expressions of your gratitude to God’s blessings. If you are not on PAR and wish to send in your offering and donations, you can drop them in the slot by the kitchen door of the church or mail them to BCUC. You can also send in your support through e-transfer. Thank you for your continued love and support to BCUC.
Offertory Prayer
For the blessing of this and all our days, we thank you, Gracious God. Accept, we pray, not just this offering of money but also our lives freely offered in gratitude for all you have done for us. Bless and use all that we offer in this place and wherever you might take us. Amen.[6]
Sending Forth
Go into the world ready to live with gratitude and generosity.
Go into the world knowing that God’s intention is abundance for all.
Go into the world and share this life-giving abundance with all you meet,
Today and every day. Amen.[7]
Hymn: “Sing to the Lord of Harvest” Voices United #519
1. Sing to the Lord of harvest, sing songs of love and praise,
With joyful hearts and voices your hallelujahs raise;
By whom the rolling seasons in fruitful order move;
Sing to the Lord of harvest a joyful song of love.
2. God makes the clouds drop fatness, the deserts bloom and spring,
The hills leap up in gladness, the valleys laugh and sing.
God fills them all with fullness, all things with large increase,
And crowns the year with goodness, with plenty and with peace.
3. Bring to this sacred altar all things God’s goodness gave,
The golden sheaves of harvest, the souls Christ died to save:
Your hearts lay down before him when at his feet you fall,
And with your lives adore him who gave his life for all.
Words 1866 Monsell, Music 1575 Steurlein, Harm © 1956 Healey Willan, Song #94301 & 86992
Reprinted with permission under ONE LICENSE #A-733214. All rights reserved
Departing: Johnny Appleseed
Zoom Fellowship hosted by Lorrie at 11:30 am. Link has been emailed. See you there!
[1] Jani Francis, Gathering Pentecost 2 2020, p33. Used with permission.
[2] Celebrate God’s Presence, p540
[3] Celebrate God’s Presence, p541
[4] Celebrate God’s Presence, p45
[5] Christine Longhurst
[6] Tony Tuck, Gathering Pentecost 2 2020, pg 42. Used with permission.
[7] Allison Abbott-Wiebe, Gathering Pentecost 2 2019, p47. Used with permission.
